Wednesday, June 4, 2014

40 days out!



Ah man, I am having so much fun! We got a lot done this week. 

The other night we went to a dinner at a member’s home, and they had invited 4 senior citizens to eat with us. I think the youngest senior citizen was 85. It was the best. They were so funny. We'd be talking about something, and then they would pipe up and tell some random story that had nothing to do with our conversation. Ah man, it was just funny.

People forget that they have signed up to feed us, so we make sure to call them beforehand. Sometimes they are still running around when we get there. So the kids will entertain us while we wait. At one home, the father was running around and was super stressed out, he reminded me exactly of my dad. His wife came in and told him to take deep breaths. As we waited for dinner, his daughter played some songs on the harp for us. It was beautiful. I've decided that the harp is what I want my daughter to play. It’s a beautiful instrument, and it’s not annoying when someone practices. 

Missionaries have their own sort of "yearbook signing" program. Everyone exchanges notebooks and by the end of our missions our notebooks should be filled. It’s a lot of fun, but the problem is, I don't know what to write. So I usually write one-liners and then draw a picture. Well, there is a Sister who raised the bar on me. Right after our baptism last week, we went out and helped the Sisters change their tire. Elder Flinders didn't know how, so I had the opportunity to show everyone how. When I got my notebook back from Sister Torres, she had drawn an amazing picture of a flat tire. I forgot to take a picture of it, but I will email it next week. So I had to come up with a good thing to do in her notebook. It’s been taking me awhile, but I am almost done with a collage of Jesus. I also haven't taken a picture of that yet, but I will when it is finished. But I did take a picture of what I wrote in her notebook: 
On Saturday I was on an exchange with the Zone Leader, Elder Valderas. He's from Chile. It was such a great learning experience for me. He taught me a lot, and really helped me to be a more effective missionary. We went to a ward potluck, and the Ward Mission Leader asked us to get up and bear our testimonies. After that, we mingled with the members and asked around for referrals. We found a guy there who was working on getting re-baptized. He had been excommunicated but he is really turning his life around. He has a friend who is taking care of him, Brother Lieverman, the same man who helped us start out with Brianna. Brother Lieverman is the coolest guy ever. He knows so much about the scriptures and the gospel, and he is always anxious to answer any questions that we have. So as Elder Valderas talked with the other guy, I had a great conversation with Brother Lieverman. He answered a lot of my questions.  After we went to a senior dinner and I asked the stake president if we could get up and share a message and bear our testimonies. He was all for it. It was super great. I love bearing my testimony. 

We've had a lot of investigators lately, but we've had a really hard time getting them to church. During church, one of our families that we are teaching didn't show up, so I decided to go to the extreme. Later in the night, Elder Flinders thanked me for doing what I did, because while I was doing it, he was really annoyed at me. But in the end he was grateful:
After sacrament, I leaned over to Elder Flinders and said, "Let’s go get them." We drove to their house, and sat in their front room for an hour, waited for them to get ready, and constantly checking up on them. "You guys almost ready?" "Do you have your scriptures?" "It’s okay that you don't have a white shirt, that t-shirt looks great!" . It took a lot of effort to get them to church, but when they did, it was definitely worth it. The ward was so awesome when we brought them in. I ran and got the primary president and had her take care of the children, then I talked with some of the ward missionaries and had them take the parents to gospel principles, and I made sure that every member of the family had someone to be with. They had a great experience. Elder Flinders thanked me for having true charity toward them. He told me that I helped him realize that charity isn't letting them sleep in and not bugging them, charity is love for your investigators that you are willing to do anything to help them go to church. 

We also had a dinner last night with a man who isn't a member, but his wife is. He is an awesome nice man. He has had an alcoholic past, and he had burned a lot of bridges, but he is slowly restoring them. He is also a very stubborn man. But I am also a very stubborn boy. He's met with the missionaries multiple times, but I am again taking it to the next level. He went to the senior dinner on Saturday, and when I was bearing my testimony, I was looking straight at him, straight in his eyes. His name is Tom Fisher. I think Tom Fisher is one of the reasons I have been sent here. I can see that he is ready. I just need to keep picking at his wall until I get some cracks in there. When we were having dinner, I asked him his beliefs, and then I asked his wife to bear her testimony to him. It was powerful. Then Elder Flinders bore a strong testimony. I ended with mine, and was pretty blunt about it. Again, he is the kind of man who needs bluntness. He's a lot like me, and we connect. I told him that I noticed when he was sharing his beliefs to me, he would say, "I believe that.." I told him that’s where we are different. He says "I believe" and I say "I know." I know it sounds like I'm being a little pushy with him, but the Spirit is with me, and He won't let me say or testify anything that will push Tom away. I'm very excited to teach him again.  

This Wednesday is the end of my first transfer, and things are starting to click. I'm really getting the hang of missionary life. I love it.

I hope all is well, 
Elder Garver

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